Fair or not, season rides on Swoopes

I’ve always tried to avoid the word ‘fair’ during the upbringing of my children. Using words like 'work', 'equitable', and 'deserve' may not be very different but I want my kids to know that life is not ‘fair’. I believe that what they do in those times of struggle and inequity will determine, in large part, how successful they are in life regardless of how they define success.